Love is the greatest feeling in the world. If you have not loved with all of your heart, you have not lived.
In spite of its beauty, I have also seen love wreck lives – some have been broken beyond repairs for a love gone wrong. Some have ceased to live, but merely exist because a love went wrong. Some have ended up in mental homes, because of a love gone wrong. Yet, others have denied themselves this great feeling because of a love gone wrong.
Friends, when you love someone with all your heart, enjoy it. Trust me, you are not the only person who benefits from such love. Even bystanders do too – for seeing a couple in love is one of the most beautiful sights to behold.
If you love someone with all of your heart, but they do not reciprocate this love, let them go. You will get over it with time. Have some dignity.
If you love someone, and they love you back, but cannot be truthful to you, let them go.
Love and lies cannot co-exist peacefully without pain in their midst. I doubt that you want the pain that will come with the lies.
If you love someone with your whole heart, they love you back, and are willing to fight for your love, it is a love worth fighting for.
If you love someone, and they love you back, but are afraid of what this means, it is a love worth fighting for.
If you love someone, but they love someone else, please, let them go. You are not a jailer. Just let them go. You will find your own love.
When a relationship is over, and you know you gave it your best, please, walk out of that relationship with your head held high. Walk out with a smile in spite of your tears. Walk out with the hope that you will find someone else to love.
Whatever you do, do not give up on love because of the way some other person treated you in a relationship. You cheat yourself that way.
In the end, what is most important is that you stay true to yourself, and ignore not any red flags.
I will probably not understand this thing called “love”. But I can say, go out there, and love your world.