Love is the greatest feeling in the world. If you have not loved with all of your heart, you have not lived. In spite of its beauty, I have also seen love wreck lives – some have been broken beyond repairs for a love gone wrong. Some have ceased to live, but merely exist because a love went wrong. Some have ended up in mental homes, because of a love gone wrong. Yet, others have denied themselves this great feeling because of a love gone wrong. Friends, when you love someone with all your heart, enjoy it. Trust me, you are not the only person who benefits from such love. Even bystanders do too – for seeing a couple in love is one of the most beautiful sights to behold. If you love someone with all of your heart, but they do not reciprocate this love, let them go. You will get over it with time. Have some dignity. If you love someone, and they love you back, but cannot be truthful to you, let them go. Love and lies cannot co-exist peacefully without pain in their midst. I doub
You know what that voice in your head says…You can’t do it. You’ll never be good enough. You’re going to fail. This voice taunts you whenever you set a goal. It criticizes you when life gets difficult. It beats you down when you struggle to stand up against its running commentary. You know you shouldn’t let self-doubt bother you, but it’s a sneaky critter. Sometimes, you just can’t contain it and it slips past your barriers. And self-doubt is greedy. When it’s loose, it devours your confidence, strips logic and reason from your mind, and steals happiness from your heart. In return, it leaves you with only fear and insecurity. You try to remove self-doubt by forcing yourself to “think positive,” which usually doesn’t work as well as you think it should. The more you fight your self-doubt, the more it fights back. However, with self-knowledge and understanding, you can use self-doubt for your benefit. Identify and ease your doubts. Learning how to recognize when your self-talk takes a